WHEN YOU DELIBERATELY CHOOSE TO BE SINGLE WHEN YOU ARE SUPPOSE TO GET MARRIED 

It  feels good always to be single. You have all your time to have fun and be with friends. You move around without much restrictions and less responsibilities on your shoulder. Some say " I am single, free to mingle"

Here is my advice for you. Listen, I know so well that it is your choice and your right to be single. Nobody should force you to do something against what you  choose. 

I'm talking about you. You have done all that it takes for you to settle and begin a family but you choose to play and have fun with your money. 

Let me tell you one thing, single life is sweet. It is very sweet but it has its limitations and consequences. Single life is like sliding into a deep sleep. By the time you  wake up, you find your contemporary friends already settled and have families.

You might say you do not need a family neither do you need to marry. Yes! It is your choice. Let me however tell you why you need to settle and start  a family. 

Let me start with single ladies. If you think you are still on the market and that you have a good job and men seem to like and flock to you, be careful. 

Your beauty has time limit. It fades away with time. Your beauty is like a blossom flower. It is beautiful in the morning,  attracting bees and butterflies, yet in the evening it dies and falters. This is a reality of life.

Men seem to be around you now, but there will come a time when they will no longer be around neither are they going to show interest in you. This is because they have moved to other blossom flowers. They are like bees. They hunt for nector. 

It is this time to catch a butterfly for yourself. Be wise and stick to one. My sister, I have seen girls like you who thought life would continue as they thought, but it changed negatively for them.

It is not a good idea to reach a time where you begin to be desperate. Make a decision now. Find someone who is mature to guide you in this process. 

The reality is you ladies are too many. This means you have stiff competition. Guys are few who are honest and serious for marriage. Many guys are not serious and just want to use and damp other people's daughters for money. 

It is respectful for a lady to settle and have kids especially in our African context. You will be stigmatised at a certain age when you do nor settle quickly. 

This is now for a single man. As a man, true respect from society comes to you when you choose to care to marry and settle. Start a family and be responsible. It does not pay spending money just having fun and enjoying yourself. 

There is always an end to anything. You will realise this when it is too late. Your married friends will begin to avoid you. You will be a suspect to their wives. What a shameful time.

Making a decision is now.  Living a life of a bachelor is not a good idea especially when you can marry but choose to take your time for nothing. 

Get a girl, marry and settle, man. Live and love your wife. Take her out buy her nice things and enjoy life together. 

God bless you and think about it. I want a good response.😍

Much love.

Pastor